LOGAN — Family, friends and community members gathered on Saturday, April 26, to reflect on the life of Deserae “Des” Michelle Turner-Buck, who touched the hearts of everyone who had the blessing of knowing her. The 22-year-old Amalga woman passed away April 17, leaving behind a legacy of laughter, love and forgiveness.
During the funeral service, April Turner, Deserae’s mother recalled family memories, traveling on vacations, having “sister dates,” or going out to eat at Pizza Pie Cafe, Des’ favorite restaurant. She spoke of how her daughter’s love for everyone and the desire to live life to the fullest never stopped, even after the attempt to take her life on Feb. 16, 2017.
“(Deserae) had a lot to deal with,” said April, “hydrocephalus seizures, vision loss, and complex conditions. But she didn’t let it stop her, and she just kept going. That is how she termed to be ‘tougher than a bullet.’”
Deserae’s siblings also shared how their sister loved listening to the radio, particularly 80’s and country music. They spoke of her determination, fighting spirit, and unique laugh.
Matt Turner, Deserae’s father explained how he gave his daughter the nickname of “Bug,” after he joked with her about eating potato bugs when she was just a young girl. He also tearfully described her love and bravery, refusing to have anger or vengeful feelings towards the two boys that left her for dead in the Smithfield canal.
“Des was a perfect example of forgiveness,” said Matt. “She forgave those two boys that did that horrible thing to her. It wasn’t easy though. Did it take some time? Yes. But I want you to know, she did. Des was at peace, as she had moved on. And I know that is why she was happy and carried such a great spirit about her.”
Deserae’s husband, Mason Buck was one of the final family members to speak. He shared memories of their courtship in the flower fields, and how once they were married, it was difficult for him to keep up with his wife’s enthusiasm to meet and uplift other people.
Following the service in Amalga, law enforcement led the hearse and family members to the Smithfield Cemetery. They were accompanied by over 50 motorcycle riders, who followed the procession.
Few people have had such an impact, on so many people, in such a short time, as the girl who was “tougher than a bullet.”
Family members have set up a GoFundMe account, to help with medical bills, funeral expenses, and any extra funds to help Deserae’s husband and family afford some extra time off work for bereavement.